Simple seriously, however it continually amazes me how unfocused persons are. Ask someone to describe their heart’s want and 90% with the time, you can not get a clear description from them. It truly is blurry and indistinct. Generalities but no specifics. Or possibly a description with the image by what’s not in it.
Before throwing in my two cents worth, can I ask why it is that men are not giving advice and support to their sons if ~ as you say ~ they are not? Do they not care to do so? Young men will listen to men ahead of what women have to say, especially during the teen and early 20s years. Even if their is no father figure in the home, men and boys have friends, there are organisations open to them such as sports clubs, where they can meet other men, often men in positions of leadership.Also, as men get older, they naturally seek the friendship and companionship of other men, and there seems as if there would be plenty of opportunity to share wisdom, pass on hints for a happy life, etc.Are you saying this doesn’t happen? How very sad.From *this* woman’s point of view, I would suggest that men (and women) approach dating with three main guidelines ~ dignity, self respect and respect for others.~ Behave towards others in the way you wish to be treated ~ with courtesy and respect, avoid those who treat you badly, and don’t lower yourself to act in a bad or shabby way.~ If things don’t go to your liking on a date, exercise self restraint, say ‘thanks a lot’ and move on. Wallowing and desperate tactics are undignified and self defeating.~ Don’t allow yourself to be used or to be a user. People can be weak, out of control or simply stupid. If you join them, or take advantage of them, you lower your dignity, and compromise your self respect.~ Act like you’ll have to give an account of yourself tomorrow. You will, actually ~ to yourself.~ If you have a high regard for your own worth, and treat other people as though your respect them as individuals, you will find no-one regards you as creepy or a loser.~ True losers may mock you for having self worth and dignity. They do this from their own pain and the knowledge no-one thinks highly of them. It’s not an enviable trait.~ It may take the self respectful person more time to find someone to share your time with, but the person you do find will be someone of similar quality to yourself. Basically, it comes down to knowing that everyone is an individual person, with feelings, problems and potential, and acting like you believe that and have respect for their place in the world.Cheers
The truth is the fact that I particularly much had handle in the water, so long as I CHOSE it. In particularly much precisely the same way, I’ve handle of my thoughts, and eventually my emotions, so long as I Pick out it. It could possibly look that I’ve to perform particularly challenging to get myself out of what ever it is actually that I’m feeling, but in much precisely the same way that I saw something that cleaned the pool as exciting, I also can pick to appear at what I’m executing within a way that may be in some way empowering, maybe even pleasurable.
Life whispers in your soul and speaks for your heart. Oftentimes,once you do not have the time to listen,it’s your selection: Listen for the whispers of your soul or wait for the brick!Do you sometimes ignore loved ones mainly because your life is also quickly and busy leaving them to wonder no matter if you seriously appreciate them?
Truly no matter if someone doesn’t know afterward its up to other visitors that they will help, so here it takes place.
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